Hiya Kindness Conversationalist, I’m Nanci Besser Reed!

My Passion Is Igniting Kindly Conscious Conversations With Your Mind AND Body

As A Pilates Instructor, Intuitive Healer, Emotional Intelligence Specialist AND Lifestyle Blogger, I’ve collaborated with over 1000 clients ranging from the ages of 8-85 since beginning my own practice over a decade ago.

✨Every aspect of my unique Approach is forged from the mindset of empowering clients to become Kindly Conscious of the infinite possibilities of their Mind AND Body✨

I invite my readers and clients to join me on the journey to become Kindly Conscious by choosing to “Go Kindly” through life.


My Kindly Conscious Journey AKA My Catalyst Moment, began over a decade ago on the worst day of my life: October 2nd. That day I was the passenger in a car that drove off a cliff. Facing sudden death was terrifying in and of itself; but facing death with regrets about “how” I’d related to others and myself was even worse.

In that moment, I decided that if I lived, I would choose Kindness to be my guide; that I would make amends, and I would move forward as a student of how to “go kindly” through life. The irony is that from the moment I emerged from that broken car, each and every obstacle I faced only made me more determined to “converse” with my Mind AND Body in a more Kindly way; and no, not in a “bliss ninny” way.

If you want to know more specifics, click here for the full version of My Story

If it could happen to me; it can happen for you.

It’s time to trade playing small for manifesting Miracles. Join me on the shared Journey to discover how to be in the world, not of it. Together, we will uncover all the blocks preventing you from Shining and Sharing your Light without defense or apology.

Like how that sounds?


Need more information still?

Let’s delve a little deeper…

Here’s a question for you: Are you a seminar junkie?

In other words:

Have you gone to more self-help, new age gurus than you can count? Have you spent more money on “changing” your life than most people spend on a college degree? Could you fill a room with partially read “How To Fix Your Life” books? Do you keep running into the same brick walls in life where the only constant is you? Are you feeling stuck and unfulfilled even though you’ve “made it?” Are you living the American Dream and still “secretly” fear you are not enough?

What if I could help you put all those pieces together into one practical solution? What if you could become more Kindly Conscious as a decision-maker? What if you could stop feeling powerless in ALL of your relationships, including the one with yourself AND even the one with your own physical body?

What if you could experience empowered living and reclaim your Presence in the Present moment through a Kindly Conscious approach to practical spirituality?

What if you could discover how to undo the unkind within your mind AND how to realign your body too?

What if you could Go Kindly through your life regardless of what happens?

What if you started to become more Kindly Conscious today?

Let’s explore all the ways I can support your specific Story.

Join me on the journey; We are all in this together.

If you’re ready to Ignite Kindly Conscious Conversations, click here.


Sign-up for my Kindly Conscious Circle today!





P.S. Follow me on Instagram for access to my newest feature “Go Kindly Daily Truth.” Each day I share a powerful, yet simple takeaway that I have come to know since choosing to Go Kindly through my life (more moments than not; I’m NOT perfect!)

P.P.S.You can also tune-in for the newest IGTV episodes via Instagram as well. Look for the highlights in the profile to the links.

Welcome, Kindness Conversationalist!

Let’s Ignite A Kindly Conscious Conversation:


  1. Michael says:

    Hello Nanci,
    I just finished reading your article on leaving an unhappy marriage. I’m a male in my early 40’s and have been married for 19 years. Most of those years extremely unhappy and mentally/verbally abusive, especially the last 4… The story was so inspiring to me. I hope that I can muster the strength to walk away from my marriage. I just wanted to say thank you…

    1. nancibesser says:

      Hi Michael,

      You are so welcome. I’m inspired by your courage to reach out to me. I’m sure life has taken you into a very different direction since your comment, but I will send you an email with encouragement just in case. Thank you!

  2. Jeanne Jansen Van Vuuren says:

    Hi Nanci,
    I feel as if I can learn so much from you. How can we connect? I live in South Africa

    1. nancibesser says:

      Hi Jeanne, Thank you for your kind message. I will reach out to you via the email you provided. I look forward to connecting.

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